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Hoo doggies! Lots to unpack here. There is a fundamental thing at work here that seems obvious now, but wasn't until I myself "retired". That sounds better than "Was downsized". Likewise retired sounds better than unemployed. Point is, I have quite a few things that I do (or am) for which work (or rather the income derived therefrom) was the enabler. I worked so I could eat & have a place to sleep while I pursued all the other stuff. Same for my wife. So we are busier in retirement than we were while working because working took up so much damned time. It's people for whom work is their identity that have problems without it. Here I mean work in the corporate sense. Maybe one worked as a writer or documentation, and can now "work" as a novelist, but more commonly it seems like they say "Oh crap, NOW what?!" and those people seem to have very short post-work lives. So cultivate something interesting to you now, I guess is what I'm saying to whoever might need to hear that. Not you obviously, but I know folks for whom being CTO of a major hospital is their identity and they are terrified of losing it for that reason. YMMV

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